PARIS — When US President Donald Trump met with his Russian counterpart, President Vladimir Putin, at a U.S. military base in Alaska last week, the world united in hope.

Just kidding. They mostly just bickered over who “won” the peace smackdown.

You would think that the prospect of finally ending the Ukraine conflict, described earlier this year by Secretary of State Marco Rubio as “a proxy war between nuclear powers: the United States — helping Ukraine — and Russia,” would have unanimous global buy-in. Instead, everyone is obsessed with optics — like debating why Trump greeted Putin warmly on the tarmac. Gee, maybe for the same reason that when you invite someone over, basic etiquette doesn’t start with an uppercut at the door.

Talks between these two powers quickly devolved into a geopolitical Super Bowl, with onlookers focused on who looks cooler on the global playing field.

Unfortunately, some egos are about to take a hard tackle before any deal crosses the goal line.

First in line: Ukraine. How many times has Kiev insisted that victory must come on the battlefield rather than at the negotiating table? The downside of that losing gamble is lost territory. Insisting that Russia now be forced to simply forget that all this ever happened is pure video-game-level fantasy.

Kiev has also spent the past week insisting on a seat at the Trump-Putin negotiations, saying that only Ukraine can be allowed to decide its own future.

Agreed! Kiev should totally have the right to keep fighting Russia if it wants to.

And because every nation should have the exact same rights to autonomy, it’s also totally cool if Trump decides to pack up America’s ball — and wallet — and go home then, right? Or does Kiev want all the advantages of being independent while assuming none of the consequences?

Ukraine’s sidelining feels oddly familiar. Like the way kids get shunted off to the plastic table with the balloon animals and paper plates while the adults talk politics over wine. But they didn’t just ask for it – they demanded it. Kiev has long insisted on playing the Western establishment’s dependent, allowing

NATO to treat its border with Russia like a weaponized flophouse designed and destined to provoke.

Ever since the conflict escalated in 2022, Ukrainian leader Volodymyr Zelenskyy has been running around in hoodies asking mom and dad for lunch= money. And now he expects Trump to pull up a high chair so he can call the shots?

Europe certainly isn’t helping Zelenskyy grow up, either. Former British defense secretary, Ben Wallace, recently insisted that Zelenskyy needs a “European power in the room” when dealing with Putin and Trump — so he doesn’t get bullied, according to the Telegraph.

Bullied into what? Peace?

Zelenskyy isn’t exactly resisting his own infantilization when he insists that the US and Russia run everything past the Europeans. Or by hauling them to Washington for his meeting with Trump like overprotective parents chaperoning a school dance.