Feeling stranded by so-called friends
Dear Annie: I am the friend everyone calls when they need something. I am the one who remembers birthdays, checks in after surgeries, brings soup when someone is sick and sends the “just thinking of you” text. If a friend is going through a divorce, I am there. If someone’s child is struggling, I listen for hours. If there is a crisis, I show up. But lately, I have started to notice something painful. When I am the one having a hard time, the room gets very quiet. A few months ago, I went through a health scare. It turned out to be OK, thank goodness, but while I was waiting ...